We know that, for example, man-on-man sex certainly existed in ancient Rome, and there is also evidence of same-sex acts being discussed in ancient Greek plays.īut when relating to more relevant, more recent sexual history, physical relationships between men have been the subject of political and societal criticism. Gay men and gay sex have been around since the start of civilisation. People are calling for queer sex education to reach wider audiences (rawpixel) A brief history However, many gay men are still attempting to navigate their sex lives with very little guidance at all. The UK government are currently introducing an inclusive LGBT+ sex and relationship education curriculum, to enable a new conversation about sex between gay men to empower them to make informed choices about their sex lives. There are lots of myths circulating about sex between gay men, perhaps fueled by societal homophobia and a lack of information and awareness of sex within the LGBT+ community. Sex between two men should be about pleasure, but sadly it has been defined by politics.Īlthough in the UK gay men are now able to have sex legally, and at the same age as their heterosexual peers, this hasn’t always been the case and nor is this true everywhere in the world.